All normal people fall into Love and Obsession, it then depends on the individual on how he or she expresses it.
Many said that love and obsession are two different things , but there are also who said , that there is no difference between the two .
A thin line between love and obsession ;
* LOVE – You want the best for the person and want them to be happy even if it means you are not part of thier life or even if it means you have to make a compromise.
It flows. It lets go. It makes feel good.
* Obsession -You want the person to be yours and your only , you want him only by your side 24/7 . You don’t like that they have other people in their lives even if that makes them happy. You hope to cut them from other people. You want them to be solely dependent on you.
Obsession controls ,hold on no matter what. It drives you crazy and look like an idiot. It takes over all common senses.
Actually the all depends on an individuals’ perception. I , for one will say that there is no definitely difference between the Love and Obsession. True love as its highest intensity is generally termed as obsession. There can be no love without obsession and all those people who say that they are in love without obsession probably doesn’t know what it feels when you are in pure and true love.
If you don’t care for the one you love ,if you don’t crave for her ,if you are not willing to do things to win her ,if you aren’t willing to die or give your life then you are not in love yet. All those individuals who say love is not obsession are those individuals who are not trying to compromise their life with someone just for the sake of living this earthly life.
Love is not like a public utility vehicle , wherein you can accommodate more than one mortal being.True love happens only once in a lifetime and not again and again like what other people perceives it. All those who say that love happens again and again have not yet tasted the spirit of pure and true love so they keep on searching for the final one.
If you think any kind of obsession in love shown by a sane person is not good , then wait till you find true and pure love by yourself then you will understand it.