It is sad that the youth of today take love failure very seriously and go to the extremes of taking their life or wasting it by taking to drinks.They should be thankful that they need not have to spend the rest of their lives with a loveless and worthless person.
Overcome love failure
Keith was beside himself when he knew that his relationship with the woman he loved had ended .She ditched him to marry someone who was more successful and rich. He just could not concentrate on his work and felt he was very unlucky. He took to drinks and his work suffered. Keith’s plight is a common type of sorrow which plagues the youth of today, which is love failure. It can happen to a woman or a man.
Why should you destroy yourself when your love fails? By destroying I mean not only taking your life, but also destructing your future as Keith did. Love is being attached emotionally to another person and you feel you cannot live without herhim. It is fine if both of you get married, but what if due to unforeseen reason you are unable to get united in a marriage bond.
It is only natural to feel dejected and depressed. But you should try to come out of it. It is no use brooding over a love that had died and got buried. If you see Keith’s life, he has wasted his time on a worthless woman who had not truly loved him. A true love does not change its mind when it sees a greener pasture. If it happens, you should be happy that your love has ended as you do not have to spend the rest of your life with a valueless person.
You should mentally gear yourself up to start your life afresh .Concentrate on things you like; it might be anything, like listening to music, gardening ,visiting places, or even concentrating on your work. Do just anything that will take your mind off your love failure. As days pass, you will find your mind recouping from your gloominess so that you are able feel normal again.
I can never forget the day when my friend’s son committed suicide just because his mother refused to acknowledge his love with a woman of a lesser status. He was a coward as he could have made his mother change her mind by his persistent love, or even he could have married the girl of his love against his mother’s wish. To take one’s life for love failure is a worst part of weakness.
When you experience love failure, you should try to be normal even if you are broken inside. If you brood about your failure, your life will look depressing and you will feel lost. You should also understand that while you are wasting away your life, the person you loved is not thinking of you and leads a happy life with no guilty conscience. Are going to waste your life for such an empty person?
Life must go on; irrespective of your failure and you must be courageous to face it. If you get heartbroken, it will immobilize you into inactivity which spells unhappiness for you in every aspect of your life. You should always move ahead to the future which definitely might show you a true person who will love you for what you are and not for what you have. Time is a great healer and who knows, you might find a right love that will bring true spring to your parched life.